It Ain't Over til .... ummm...well, that's the catch, it isn't ever supposed to be Over.

by Errolyn

Recently, Ju Han and I have been trying out the words Wife and Husband on each other. Hehhehehe it gives me the shivers! It is just awesome that we are going to be spending the rest of our lives together, making it work and working it right. We will spend each morning waking up next to each other and each night, falling asleep next to each other. He will have every right to expect me to be there for him and me him.

The most important thing is that I can trust him. I don't know how it will be in the future, if anything will change (as they are wont to do) but it's just wonderful now that I can feel secure with him. Of course, I see him occasionally eyeing the next sweet thing but I also understand and acknowledge that he doesn't think he will ever stray as it's against his principles. :D

A girl can't be too careful though and it's always been my philosophy to accept that life always throws curve balls. The most important thing though is to be able to catch them, run and make good anyhow. We must both be strong enough to always endeavour to make it work and try as hard as we can not to fall by the wayside but if anything were to happen, then I would pray for us both to be strong enough to come out of it, maybe a little dented, a little the worse for wear but still functioning and able to recuperate. That is my wish for us.

I know that marriage is not just fun and roses and like the old joke - after 10 years of marriage, it's not necessarily "Come fall asleep in my arms darling" but "Move over, it's too hot!". But it's important to inject romance and love every once in a while into a marriage - it's crucial to understand that it is pure hard work but just like working in a profession you love - the hard work just doesn't seem like work.