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Sunday, October 24, 2010

Only BABY Talk?????

Yeah, I realise that all I've been writing about is baby stuff.....shall try to put in more everyday marriage stuff ok. But so far, everything (touch wood) is fine. We're humming along and it's nice and smiley and laughy and cuddly and kissy. HAhahhahahahhaha......

The only thing I would like to improve on is our relations with friends (AHA! Tell me what 'relations' you were thinking about????!!!!)

We don't seem to spend much time with friends. We've been married since Mar 09 and it's like 1.5 years now but I think we're still in the honeymoon stage. Furthermore, we don't really make plans for the weekend so ..... difficult to tie people in. I asked Ju Han whether he wanted to have some friends over this weekend for a game of Risk but he figured he'd be working so would rather rest......We're quite quite different from my brother and sister in law. They are very sociable beings and always on the move with friends - dinners, barbeques, outings, parties......but Ju Han and I just aren't like that. Though we DON'T want to end up old and without friends!!! Which could very well happen right? And I also don't want to end up with just married couple/married with baby friends. So boring. Need to have a good mish mash eh and then we can keep our toes in every pie. AIyo, sounds greedy and ambitious but I think it's just not in our make-up.

I enjoy my time alone and I do enjoy being with friends too but not that huge party group thingy. I prefer more intimate settings where people can talk and really get to know what's going on. It doesn't help that all my close friends are so far flung and my KL friends have very busy lives of their own.

Well, we just make do eh? I don't think there is a right or wrong - But I would infinitely prefer to prefer time with my husband over time with my friends/parties. Right? RIGHT????

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

Never underestimate the value of good friends and good girlfriends. The former can be 'couple frens' and the latter, for if you ever get really upset and can't talk to the couple frens cos they're too stepford or don't want to take sides.