It's not easy to do without an understanding helpful partner tho, so make sure daddy understands what happens with new mummies or else it's just all that harder.Daddies will never understand or be able to relate to what we go through on their own.
So what do I want....a massage, answers to what to do every time my baby cries, a cheat sheet to how to teach and guide him to being a GOOD person and lots of money ha ha. Actually empathy and support and a new mums group in my area.
On 22 May 2011 18:35, "Errolyn Tan" <juer2009@gmail.com> wrote:I have reached that point now where I know I need some time to myself and to not feel too guilty about taking time for myself. And it seems I'm not alone.
Check this out http://www.babycentre.co.uk/baby/youafterthebirth/stayingsane/ for how mothers stay sane.
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I completely agree....its like work. You need to play just as hard as you work...and its mistaken as slacking off, but really, this time out is critical to recharge, and get a different perspective that IMPROVES your 'daily work'. It may seem like a perverse method, like "You have to be cruel to be kind"....in this case, "You have to (not work)/play to work better". One shouldn't feel guilty! Am glad you are seeing the light!!
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